Driving with a suspended license...anyone had this happen and what was the outcome?!?

YOu need to check with the VA DMV to see if you had to pay a penalty to them (Normaly $100 in most states) to reactivate your eligibility to have a license. If you did have to pay this and didn't know that, pay it, show up in court with all the doentation that you did and ask the judge for leiency as you did everything you thought you were supposed to do in good faith and have taken every step to correct the error.